Thursday, November 10, 2011

就快美满了

我,惭愧的,偷偷的,回来了!
基本上我已忘了账号密码,试了几次都不对,只好出绝招按[password recovery],
有些东西真的很容易忘记,所以才更需要老朋友来帮我门记住一些我们记不得的小小回忆。

25 岁,

我很庆幸我有我喜欢的工作,轻松却挑战的工作,好好的同事,善解人意的老板。

我很庆幸我工作之余,还有时间去修读 mba, 一步一步慢慢充实自己,一个不小心我的小梦想就达成了啊 =D

我很庆幸我有个不太美满却很幸福的家,更庆幸在我有能力给父母一点小幸福的时候,他们还在。

我很庆幸我从小建立的友情知己没有凋谢,虽然我常忘了他们一些重要的事情,但他们一直都还在,真的一直都在,都会不时冒出来提醒我,我虽然经常忘东忘西,但我一定一定记得我们的青春因为有了彼此而灿烂

看似美满的生活,就是少了一种东西

我努力的为生活增添一些姿色,却越过越无聊
我努力的广阔生活圈子, 却越过越平淡

就是少了一种东西, 我的生活就美满了
对,少了一个他,一个可以走进我心里的他,生活就真的美满了

你在那里?我找了好久好久...

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

人间温暖

周末, 是我的最爱,全天下的人都知道要我周末早起身对我来说是很痛苦的一件事,但这个周末我又痛苦了一次,因为我亲戚来KL啦,我又当导游啦.星期六早上,竟然很早就起来带两位老人家去吃早餐(我昨晚还追戏追到半夜四点半呢,所以早起的痛苦 X2 )。

吃完早餐带他们去动物园探亲。真的是去动物园探亲啦! 我亲人不是动物,是我舅婆想见她的弟媳,她在动物园卖小食。她弟弟3年前癌症去世了,留下太太和3个孩子,看得出我舅婆很想见她过得好不好,只要我点头,就可以完成她的心愿。我一向来没有动物缘所以不去动物园。虽然有一千个不愿意,经过内心的拉扯挣扎,还是妥协了,将心比心,我也是有我很想念的亲人,嗯。。我懂。

过后,陪老人家去Shopping,吃道地美食,每次到一个地方,虽然已经来过几百次了,但都要好像第一次来的心情帮他们介绍(这叫专业,哈!)。 你一定很好奇为什么我会做这种无聊事?

记得我在一年半前,很冲动一个人私奔去旅行,最大的收获不是带了什么X名牌回来,而是我领悟到一个大道理“人间温暖”。

30天 -飞机,巴士,地铁,船,穿越那么多欧洲城市,要不是因为他们,我的旅程不可能那么精彩,也不可能去到那么多地方。在不同的城市投靠不同的朋友, 那些曾经热情招待我的亲戚/朋友,我永远都不会忘记你送给我的这一份感动。我记得很清楚,当我一个人来到完全陌生的城市,周围人的肤色和我不一样,讲的语言我听不太懂,公共交通我完全不熟悉的时候,是你们热情的带着我去欣赏路上的风景。

所以, 当外地的亲戚朋友想要投靠你的时候,请不要吝啬你的 热情,欢迎他们吧,因为你短短几天的陪伴,她们真的会记得很久很久,这叫做人情。我相信,如果有一天,你需要去到他们的地方,你也希望得到相同的对待。 这是就算你有钱住进5星级酒店也享受不到的 - 人间温暖 !

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Paris


This post has been pending for more than a year. Jx remind me of the precious memory that we gone through in Paris last year. He was my secondary school classmate, the school boy who sit in front of me when I was 16 and 17. And yes, it has been 6 years we never meet each other since graduation. 6 years after, both of us met in London and travel Paris together. I would never expect this could happen in my life. Surprisingly, the bond of our friendship does not break by the matter of 6 years time.






We met at London Victoria Coach Station, when I still look around to find where is he, he called my name. “oh my goodness, Jx had grown up so fast ”. He became a tall man with plenty of whiskers, arming a very professional Canon DSLR. We departed from London, went by bus/ferry. It takes around 7-8 hours to arrived. For sure, we shared our life and talking non stop along the journey. The feeling was great and warm to meet old friend in a foreign places. And some of the photo i post in this blog came from his hand. He is a professional photographer, visit Jx to see more photos.







Nothing is perfect, everything has its pros and cons, regret to say that the attitude of French were disappointed me as we do not receive good treat from them. Partly because we cannot speak French, bcz of complicated political issue, they do not like English. Also, most of them do not understand English. Me and Jx planned to speak hockien or malay to the Parisan since they don't like English. Perhaps we could gain some respect if we speak Hockien. “ Toilet ti tolok? Roti kui lui ? Metro an chua khi ? ” LOL




White church

The romantic element of Paris came from the combination of the people, the building, the music and the weather. Most of the scenery I’ve seen before in the movies and now I can see with my own naked eye. I was impressed with the buildings/church/muzeum/art/trendy clothings/musics. Especially the sophisticated historical building are the most valuable assets leave by French ancestor, millions of tourists step into Paris daily and tourism play an important role in France economy.
One of the culture of French is reading. They love reading. can u spot how many ppl read in this photo? For my own summary, French read in LRT, Hongkie and Singaporean PSP in LRT, while Malaysian Sleep in LRT.

Another problem that we faced was we cant read French, we merely look at the map, and picture to guess everything, from metro station, food, road name, sign board.. Luckily, we survived till the last day. In fact we always miss the stop and we took longer time to arrive our destination. (Jx, mai sembang kuat lar)




Yes, this is our backpacker hostel- PEACE AND LOVE.

Its really small yet expensive, we stay together with another backpacker, one is from Texas, and another one is from....oh ya.. we don't know where is she from as she is very quiet and never talk to us in the room. She was sleep when we came back, and she already check out when we woke up. And so, I never see her face as she covered her bed with blanket. What a secretive backpacker.





If i have second chance, i wish to step into Paris once again.
Paris, I miss you.

Saturday, February 6, 2010

Macau

澳门大三巴牌坊
为什么这个牌坊要叫做“大三巴”? 难道这牌坊看起来很三八吗?
答案很简单, 是因为“大三巴”是葡萄牙语的译音。 就如此简单,不要想太多。


那原本是座葡式教堂。有一天,教士在厨房煮东西,不小心起火了,所有的木质结构都烧毁了,惟留下这堵经大火熏陶的黑色石墙。虽然来过了,但还是会礼貌的拍几张照片。


澳门是葡萄牙留下的遗产,有很多教堂。
我们不是跟团。所以都可以很随性的到美丽庄严的教堂走一圈。



澳门特产。 《钜记手信》
几乎每条街都有分店, 如果没买几袋回去就不算到过澳门。钜记特点之一就是不断让客人试吃,就算你脸上写着“我不会买”, 他还是会要大方的让你试。付账之前每个人都会吃3-7 片以上不同的饼,吃上瘾了,自己不好意思就一定会买。


钜记招牌杏仁饼。 新鲜出炉。


《虾子捞》
因为爱吃虾,所以点了《虾子捞》。

原来“虾子”就是这种一粒一粒红红 咸咸的东东噢?心情瞬间低落到谷底,
还好。 味道还蛮好吃的,喜欢到澳门/香港/中国吃云吞面,因为和马来西亚的不一样。
很细,有弹性,爽口。我喜欢!

澳门《猪扒包》

《双皮奶》
有冷, 也有热。各有千秋。 吃起来想Pudding也像Jelly。


这条街有很多人卖鱼翅,很多人都站着吃碗仔翅。
普通人一旦看到很多人排队的反应就是-“会跟着一起排”,
我是普通人所以我也跟着一起排。
结果味道普通到不行,跟康乐的没差。



这是一间让每个球迷都会兴奋的店。对我而言- 没感觉。
哈哈我躲在我妹妹屁股后面。

咦?圣诞树? 哦对啦,我们去年圣诞前去的, 到现在才Blog, 是啦是啦,我很懒。

威尼斯人 -The Venetian



赌场- 人山人海。
华人真爱赌。

澳门夜景, 犹如香港


葡京赌场
灯光美美

她是今晚的主角,我们特地选在她的生日送便宜机票给他当生日礼物。
(妈咪其实我们并没你想象中的那么孝顺。只是你生日刚好遇到周末,所以我们不必拿那么多天假)




Saturday, November 14, 2009

Story of a wheel chair lady

She is a 80 years old lady. Today i met her in the hospital again. I have a deep impression on her bcoz she gave me some feelings like my grandma, and she will shout my name every time when she see me in hospital, usually i'l spend some time talk to her even thou the topic was always the same and keep repeating. I understand most of the oldfolks happy talking to youngster like me. Perhaps, I was just like their grand daughter.

she has a very serious Osteoarthritis, she could'nt stand and walk, so every time she came with her wheelchair. Most of the time, she wasnt doing good.



She has to go to the hospital once a week for the continuouse 5 weeks to complete her injection course. She said go to hospital is tiring, but she dont mind to go more often as long as she can be cured. She was really suffered from the pain until she couldnt sleep at night.


At her age, she was not safe to do operation coz every operation has risk and it spend lots of money, somemore she was 80, no insurance to cover her medication fees. so Doctor recommended her to take injection as another alternative.

Unfortunately, she was too seriouse and the injection couldnt help at all after she complete the one month treatment. Thousand dollars, energy, time, were wasted.

Doctor said she need to go for X-ray and wait for the last chance, which is Total Knee Replacement. (TKR-the operation to replace knee by the artificial knee). She need to spend another 30-40k again.

I could see disapointment in her eye, she complaint the injection was not effective, she was hopeless indeed. In fact most of the patient show good improvement, there are 80% successful rate for the injection, but she was too seriouse to be cured and she is the unlucky one. Today, she was emotional and physically exhausted. The disappointement like a god damn tsunami wash over her.

I feel bad, very bad. I dunno what should i speak to her this time. I feel sad not bcoz of her complaint, i simply felt profound sympathy on this ah-por. Thousand dollars is quite a big amount for a 80 old lady, she wasnt look rich. I still remember, when she wanted to pay me, she took out her money from a shabby plastic beg (hide somewhere in her bra). It couldnt save her at all, she is so suffering but nobody can help. I wondered is she afford to pay for the surgery cost?

This is another incident that inspire me. we might look well nowadays, but aging is a scary and unavoidable matter in life.

Quote to share: Wealth is nothing without health.

年轻人用健康换取财富
老人就用年轻时赚来的财富换回健康

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Happiness can be so simple

Oh my god ! Face recognition technology from CANON camera has been transcribed to MICROSOFT !! Whoever developed this technology first, i'm not really sure. (ask BillGate)

Microsoft new Face Recognition Webcam - It's able to recognize our faces, adding the icon and decoration on our face. Cool man ! Its so fun to play with, It somehow generates some laughter to us.


Yo..Hiao po


Big teeth. New character in ICE AGE
I decided not to complaint on my round face anymore,
Round is better than square.
thanks mum you didnt born me like this.

Yes, i have a real bad sense of direction
ow..
The minority has the ability to make him/herself happy, absolute majority have the talent to put themself in upset and stressful condition.
Hapiness can be retain from a joke, a funny person, a movie, youtube, crayon shinchan or as simple as a web cam.
Explore your own way to make yourself happy in this stressful life.
Hapiness is whole life assignment

~~Yipee~~

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Starbucks in Borders

B.I.S is our new hangout policy.
B.I.S --> Borders In Starbucks

We enjoyed coffee with books, a good environment, with right person, made up a simple and perfect weekend.

9 years ago,
she bullied me
she shouted me

9 years after
I bully her
I shout at her

..nothing changes..
we enjoyed bullying each other

..as always..
we are still friends forever


A perpetual friendship is precious.
Friendship cannot stand always on one side.
Thanks to stay by my side during these years.